i dunno why some guys are crazy enough to bring their x & present gfs together thinking theyd be friends. Noble. But really, irl, it could be disastrous.
a recent x did just that.
we have been friends even before we had a thing so after we broke up, it wasnt hard to actually be friends again. his new girl is in the same class as ours. i know her though were not really that close. when i found out that he was going out with her, i admit, i was a bit jealous, but then again, i realized that he has to move on right? *grins*
going back to my story. he texted me saying that he's at the mall looking for company. naturally, i told him to bugger off and text his gf instead, he said she wasnt replying daw. he said he was bored and just wants to hang out, blah blah. so i thought, wth, were friends anyways, i dont see anything wrong hanging out with him. its not like were hooking up again... so i went. only to find out that she was there as well and it was her idea getting together. i mean, wtf? what does she want to do? compare notes? she said she doesnt want me to have any hurt feelings daw. who said i do? am i required to be friends with her just because my x and i are still friends? i do hang out with a lot of people but when it comes to those i consider friends, im picky.
i just stayed a few mins, had coffee and made up some alibi about meeting someone else, then left. then she texted me saying that i was distant daw, and that baka galit ako sa kaniya. i gave her a piece of my mind... that i dont want to be a hypocrite and act like were long lost buddies just because shes the flavor of the month. being the present gf of my ex does not require us to be friends. and in the first place, she should make an effort to be friends with all of us in our small little clique, not just me. she can start by hanging out with us. then we'll take it from there.
i wasnt being a bitch naman diba?
:P
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posted by
minor, 3 months ago
i smell threesome here ::yawn::
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posted by
letsugas, 3 months ago
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posted by
chelsea, 3 months ago
toinkz. haha. no threesome. i dont like to share.
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posted by
darthjesus, 3 months ago
ateng, your insecurities are showing. don't get threatened, get even before she knows it. lollers.
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posted by
chelsea, 3 months ago
^ alam mo naman ako, mabait. lol.
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posted by
darthjesus, 3 months ago
nyahahahaha they finish last daw ateng.
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posted by
toodles, 3 months ago
So after you gave her a piece of your mind, she didn't reply right?
Good bitch. :p
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posted by
feanne, 3 months ago
I know what it's like to be on the other side.
I'm very good friends with two of my boyfriend's exes. Even after having a big conflict with one of them.
But it only works if both ladies want to be friends, and are willing to work out issues (if there are any). As you said, friendship is not necessary. In my case, I believe I don't lose anything (in fact I gain a lot) by making friends, and the others involved had a similar mindset. I'm very lucky. :)
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posted by
feanne, 3 months ago
P.S. It was somewhat bitchy to call her "flavor of the month". Unless your intentions were to let her know that the guy is a player. :p
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posted by
chelsea, 3 months ago
darthie, not for my case. lol.
toodles, she dint.
feanne, i admit, i was surprised to know that they were going out so soon. he said someone else likes him naman daw, so he doesnt see the reason to mope. in fairness to him, when we were together, nah, he wasnt a player naman.
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posted by
Nymos, 3 months ago
hhmmmmm......hi chels, i think at one point, you are somewhat bitchy! hehehe
But it's good that at least you're not "plastic at all".....chilax! :D
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posted by
feanne, 3 months ago
I understand how annoyed you'd be though when you go there and find out you were deceived... I find it annoying that the guy pretended he just wanted to hang out... parang feeling mo tuloy it's a trap or something. I'd be annoyed too! I'd prefer if they were straightforward instead, as in, "hi, I'm ______'s girlfriend, I'd like to meet you, if you have some free time soon, would you like to meet up and chat?" at least you know what to expect.
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posted by
chelsea, 3 months ago
we actually know each other naman. its just that she has her own circle of friends and we dont really hang out. it felt awkward being there. we just broke up a week ago and now he's with her. and no theyre not just going out, sila na daw, according to the gurl. it was even she who approached me 2 days ago after class to tell me, with all smiles, na sila na. i just smiled and congrutulated her. i asked the guy and he confirmed. they sure dont waste time. napaparanoid tuloy ako if they were already seeing each other when we were still together, or ewan. hehe. nyways. ayoko ng isipin pa yun. tapos na, ayoko ng balikan. bahala na sila sa mga buhay nila.
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posted by
darthjesus, 3 months ago
just be friends with here sabay ipakulam mo sya ateng
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posted by
darthjesus, 3 months ago
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posted by
minor, 3 months ago
tapos kantahan mo yung ex mo ng
You seem very well, things look peaceful
I'm not quite as well, I thought you should know
Did you forget about me Mr. Duplicity
I hate to bug you in the middle of dinner
It was a slap on the face how quickly I was replaced
Are you thinking of me when you fuck her
Cause the love that you gave that we made
Wasn't able to make it enough for you to be open wide, no
And every time you speak her name
Does she know how you told me you'd hold me
Until you died, 'til you died
But you're still alive
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posted by
bebang, 3 months ago
^nakanam alanis
chels ang haba ng hair mo pagupit ka naman bukas :D ang taray mo bakla!
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posted by
feanne, 3 months ago
chelsea -- One week, ouch... even if they weren't seeing each other already while you were together with the guy... that short timespan just makes it look bad. What a jerk! Good thing you broke up with him. =\ You're right, just move on and be happy!
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posted by
Harley_Quinn, 3 months ago
@Chelseamarie, Guy problems?
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posted by
chelsea, 3 months ago
haze, nah. just some guy :P
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posted by
haringkopas, 3 months ago
nakanamf...mahal mo? o mahaba siguro daliri. nyahaha* V
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posted by
hilarion, 3 months ago
whatta dense, this guy. he should know that it's not that simple. maybe in a few months or so, but two weeks? you should have given him a swift kick to the balls before you left.
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posted by
acer3ya1, 3 months ago
sorry ha..
but somehow, ycoy's name keeps popping out of my head.
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posted by
haringkopas, 3 months ago
^bakit si ycoy? pa explain naman...
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posted by
acer3ya1, 3 months ago
^basta mga ganyang sitwasyon.. ewan ko ba, si ycoy agad ang pumapasok sa isip ko e.
siguro dahil magaling syang mag-advice ?
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posted by
chelsea, 3 months ago
kopas, toinkz.
larry, so many gurls, so little time?
acer, speaking of.. bakit parang antahimik ni ycoy? nasaang lupalalop sya? nasa mindanao daw? lol.
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posted by
intruder_jd, 3 months ago
shucks! super bilis naman nun chels.
I sort of have the same experience but she's not an ex of my bf. more on someone who's "obsessed" with my bf. One day she told me to love and take care of him the way that she can't, which was really really awkward. But that message was sent thru friendster. Pano pa kaya un harapan? grabe naman...
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posted by
chelsea, 3 months ago
^ oh well, tapos na yun. i guess he has moved on.. he moved on to the other gurl. lol.
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posted by
bebang, 3 months ago
next please!.... go chels maraming isda sa dagat saka sa fishpond :) iba-iba talaga trip ng tao kitams makikipagkaibigan pa yung girlet na parang di naman akma sa sitwasyon,
*suklay-suklay sa buhok ni chels*
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posted by
Chrisangelo, 3 months ago
acer, speaking of.. bakit parang antahimik ni ycoy? nasaang lupalalop sya? nasa mindanao daw? lol.
Father na si Ycoy. Good boy na daw sya. :D
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posted by
acer3ya1, 3 months ago
^hear that? biglang kumulog-kumidlat-umulan... at humihip ang hangin... weird...
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posted by
Chrisangelo, 3 months ago
^ Nyahahahaha. Bumuhos nga ang ulan dito eh. :))
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posted by
hilarion, 3 months ago
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posted by
chelsea, 3 months ago
chris, oo na nga, father na nga. inaano ba sya? sus. parang hindi nyo namimiss.
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posted by
Harley_Quinn, 3 months ago
@Chelseamarie, Just some guy? Great leave him as that, just some guy. 8^))
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posted by
listahan, 3 months ago
baka nga naman gusto lang makipag-kaibigan yung girl at dahil kilala ka na nung guy eh malamang sinabi nya na okey ka at hinde ka palaaway...
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posted by
abomination, 3 months ago
hey chelsea..
you can call me anytime you want.. hehehe
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posted by
chelsea, 3 months ago
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