contributed by devilboo, 3 months ago
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When I found out about my husband’s affair, he would repeatedly say “Dev, I don’t love her, it’s just that I need her for the sake of our business. Kung hindi mo kayang intindihin yon, hindi na muna ako uuwi dito, pag natapos na ang lahat ng problema saka ako babalik”.
For almost two years na niloko nya ako sasabihin nya sakin na hindi nya mahal yung babae? Such a lame excuse!
The nerve of that kabit, kahit buking na todo deny pa din na wala daw sila relasyon ng asawa ko! She even texted me na idedemanda ako for accusing her na kabit sya. Sobrang kapal talaga ng mukha, mas makapal pa sa bilbil nya!
What’s the best thing as in the best na pwede kong gawin dun sa babae?
Can a marriage survive after an affair?
I need your help guys.
posted by Chrisangelo, 3 months ago
What’s the best thing as in the best na pwede kong gawin dun sa babae?
Most prolly ignore her. I don't think confrontations would help.
Can a marriage survive after an affair?
Yes and no. It actually depends on how the husband can stay true to his "no more affair" promise and how the wife would trust his husband after that.
posted by gridlock, 3 months ago
post a pic of here with a de-motivational poster style and mass circulate it through emails till the whole [internet] world knows about her from that.
posted by devilboo, 3 months ago
@chris
I tried ignoring her before pa, but then things got complicated. He's controlling my hubby not to go home na.
posted by devilboo, 3 months ago
@grid
That's what I'm planning to do, but since complicated na nga ngayon ang sitwasyon wala ako magawa. Meron kasi labor case ang agency ng hubby ko, and yun girl ang uma-attend ng hearing so anytime pwede sya ilaglag e. Hay grabe! Nakaka-praning!
posted by Chrisangelo, 3 months ago
I tried ignoring her before pa, but then things got complicated. He's controlling my hubby not to go home na.
I see, then Gridlock's suggestion would be pretty good too. :D Post it in highfiber for a start. Create motivational posters title with the caption "Whores: They just can't get enough" ::))
posted by devilboo, 3 months ago
I think that would be great! I know her friendster account and was able to get some of her pixs. :D
posted by devilboo, 3 months ago
@chris Btw, do you think filing a case againts that bitch will do good? and what case if ever? thanks.
posted by gridlock, 3 months ago
with what you just added about her controlling your husband, it kinda sounds like the same situation with my brother in a twist. she's controlling him and causing "stress" between him and my family and relatives. i can go on more about it but that'll be for some other time.
what are your feelings on your husband right now? you think that you two can make it through this "life's curveball"?
posted by mesai, 3 months ago
case? if you're still married legally, then, adultery. yun nga lang, both her and your husband's gonna suffer from that wrath. it takes two to tango, y'know.
posted by devilboo, 3 months ago
I love my husband and I want us to start over again but then Im having difficulty because everything reminds me of his betrayal.
posted by devilboo, 3 months ago
@mesai, Yup were married. Nagpa-blotter nako since sabi nya ako daw ang dedemanda nya. Meron din medico legal record since nagkaroon na kami ng encounter sa office ni hubby. Gusto ko lang sya bigyan ng leksyon, sobrang kapal ng mukha e. hehehe.
posted by gridlock, 3 months ago
at least we know that you are willing to get through this. it's now up to him if he is willing also to get through this. as they say, "life ain't easy".
posted by mesai, 3 months ago
let her file a case against you, i don't think it will hold water. besides, if your hubby loves you as much as you love him, or even more, then he'd stand by your side on this ordeal.
posted by devilboo, 3 months ago
Yeah grid, Im very much willing though it really really hurts talaga. It pisses me off because they're still seeing each other. Actually ako pa ang nanghihiram ng asawa ngayon, and it sucks big time because my son kept on asking about his dad.
posted by wicked1925, 3 months ago
sa pagkakaalam ko sa pilipinas walang adultery case pag lalaki ang nagloko, concubinage lang. adultery is only applicable if the married woman is the one having an affair in Philippine law, correct me if i'm worng.
posted by gridlock, 3 months ago
damn! this feels almost exactly on what's going on with my brother right now. i think you need to give him a good right hook to knock some sense into him. i almost did when i saw my brother when i was in california recently.
posted by mesai, 3 months ago
tangina! eh bkt ka manghihiram ng asawa?! kung ayaw nya na sa'yo eh di huwag, and don't share custody with your son, tas hingi ka ng malaking alimony. heheheh! teka, meron ba nun sa Pinas?
chet, di ko na matandaan masyado Philippine Law, it has been 7 years since I read the Phil Bill of Rights, lol!
posted by michael316, 3 months ago
Leave him. If he doesn't give you child support, don't let him see his son again.
posted by devilboo, 3 months ago
@mesai Lahat kasi ng operation sa agency affected pag inaaway ko ang kabit. Aawayin kasi ni kabit si hubby ko at pag nag away sila lahat ng work sa office nakabinbin na. Sabi ng asawa ko "kapit sa patalim" ang ginawa nya. Ayaw nya mag suffer ang business at the same time ayaw nya rin makulong sa dami ng case ng agency na naka-file sa labor. Sabi ni hubby gusto nya malampasan ang lahat ng kasama kami ng anak nya. Ang hirap, sobra.
posted by devilboo, 3 months ago
@mesai Nkakatawa nga kung iisipin kasi parang kinunsinti ko na din sila at ako pa ang nag give way sa kahayupan na ginawa nila. Ang gustong mangyari ni kabit ay hiwalayan ako ng asawa ko. Ayaw ng asawa ko, kami daw ang pamilya nya at kami ang mahal nya.
posted by minor, 3 months ago
ano ba naman tong mga problema ng mga taga hifi... may kabit ang asawa, may pasaway na sister-in-law, may tatay na gustong masunod sa gagawin ng anak.... hay buhay..
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antay ko na lang comment ni bebang....
posted by devilboo, 3 months ago
Hayy buhay talaga. :D
posted by mesai, 3 months ago
mistresses should know their boundaries..i know mine! =P
posted by devilboo, 3 months ago
hehehe natawa naman ako dun, kaw pa?! I dont think so. :D
posted by mesai, 3 months ago
yes, i am a mistress. i've a mistress kit somewhere in this house. i have cuffs, whips, edibles, and what-nots. you can call me mistress mesai. waheheheh!
at least i lightened your mood. ^_^
posted by devilboo, 3 months ago
Whoooooaahhh! wink wink.
posted by musikero, 3 months ago
if only our Lawyer member here in hifi is active as he was in v6 he could be of great help in legal matters.
take michael316's advice... ^_^
posted by devilboo, 3 months ago
Sayang! Kawawa naman anak ko kung ilalayo ko sa tatay nya. hehehe
posted by muffin, 3 months ago
hmm, i don't think this would be the right place to be having this conversation over. ever tried going to a marriage counselor?
i think the best way to approach this is having an open conversation with your guy without being confrontational. like i knew this girl who said that her husband one day told her that she's falling for this flight stewardess, with him being a pilot.
she just told him that he appreciates his honesty. and she would like him to know that she loves him very much. she would also like for him to think about if he had any future with that girl... and compare it with what he had now, being that he had a wife and kid that loves and supports him dearly.
yun lng
posted by devilboo, 3 months ago
This may not be the right place to talk things over, but i find hifi an outlet..Nope, we never tried going to a counselor though I told him that we need it. I love my husband and I am willing to give him another chance. About the mistress, ill give her a taste of her own medicine. :D
posted by minor, 3 months ago
ill give her a taste of her own medicine. :D
kakabit ka sa asawa ng kabit ng asawa mo? .... ang gugulo nyo? lols
posted by kibitzer, 3 months ago
I tried ignoring her before pa, but then things got complicated. She's controlling my hubby not to go home na. It pisses me off because they're still seeing each other. Actually ako pa ang nanghihiram ng asawa ngayon, and it sucks big time because my son kept on asking about his dad -Kung sunud-sunod si hubby ---DITCH HIM---Chant the mantra: Priorities, Priorities while packing his bags. I've got lots of single mother friends who are doing just great. You do have a job, don't you? Most wifeys who stick to an abusive relationship don't leave their husbands due to financial insecurity and because of fear that the kid will develop problematic behavior. First concern is valid but can be solved if you have a supportive family. Second concern is plausible but not impossible to resolve. If your kid grows with the rest of the family and they get involved in his upbringing he would do just fine
Lahat kasi ng operation sa agency affected pag inaaway ko ang kabit. Aawayin kasi ni kabit si hubby ko at pag nag away sila lahat ng work sa office nakabinbin na. Sabi ng asawa ko "kapit sa patalim" ang ginawa nya. Ayaw nya mag suffer ang business at the same time ayaw nya rin makulong sa dami ng case ng agency na naka-file sa labor. Sabi ni hubby gusto nya malampasan ang lahat ng kasama kami ng anak nya. Ang hirap, sobra.
- In the ideal world, work and personal problems don't mix but since reality is a bitch, have your husband report her to your boss about her inability to successfully perform her duties as stated in her contract. If he's the boss, have her fired while reading from her dismal performance report (para legal kuno) and citing the performance indicators that have not been met.
If an office stops functioning because of a single person's inability to work under pressure, then they need restructuring. Hire another employee (kung boss siya siyempre)
Nkakatawa nga kung iisipin kasi parang kinunsinti ko na din sila at ako pa ang nag give way sa kahayupan na ginawa nila. Ang gustong mangyari ni kabit ay hiwalayan ako ng asawa ko. Ayaw ng asawa ko, kami daw ang pamilya nya at kami ang mahal nya. All talk and no show makes hubby a pompous two-timing asshole who thinks he can get away with anything, which leads you back to Chant the mantra: Priorities, Priorities while packing his bags and demanding a huge alimony sum
If you do decide to leave him, there are support groups for single moms and you could change your tax status too. hehe
If you do decide to stick with him, be awfully sure that he won't be commiting the same grave mistake again, attend lots of marriage counseling session, and have him spend more time with his kid. If kabit is still in the office he works and doesn't leave, maybe he can find another job, hard, yes, but better in the long run; if not, do a Lorena Bobbit.
Of course, keep in mind that the people in Highfiber don't give sound advice. Seek professional help.
posted by devilboo, 3 months ago
@minor...talagang magulo,,,update nalang kita kung anong ginawa ko. lols
posted by devilboo, 3 months ago
I'll keep that in mind Kibitzer...thanks
at sa lahat thanks, thanks
posted by Harley_Quinn, 3 months ago
Lorena Bobbitt needed.
posted by hilarion, 3 months ago
lols @HQ that's your solution for all men-related shenanigans.
posted by musikero, 3 months ago
@HQ: pano kung hindi nkita yung itinapon, pwede pa bang magkabit ng ibang penis sa naputulan? LOL
posted by bebang, 3 months ago
dev ang mga putanginang yan dapat tinatalupan ng buhay ibabad sa sukang may kalamansi, pagkatapos ipagiling, sunugin at mga abo ay itapon sa imburnal at isumpa na kahit kelan ay wag na silang mareincarnate.. (wish ko lang pwedeng gawin :)
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masakit ang maloko ng taong mahal mo at pinagkakatiwalaan mo, ganyan ang buhay may mga pagsubok na kinalaunan ay magpapatibay sayo... di rin lang naman ikaw ang taong naloko ng taong minamahal, magdasal ka at ihinga mo ang sama ng loob mo sa mga taong malalapit sayo, makinig at mag-ingat sa mga payong matatanggap, mag-usap kayo ng masinsinan ng mister mo timbangin mo kung sa lahat ng nagawa nya ay kaya mo pang syang tanggapin at dun sa babae na masarap sampal sampalin pabayaan mo na, oo masarap gumanti pero tama na yun nabuking mo sila, kung gusto ka nyang idemanda eh di idemanda sino bang magmumukhang katawa-tawa...kung dumating man sa punto na talagang hihiwalayan mo na ang mister siguraduhin mo na anak ay sustentado hanggang makapagtapos ng pag-aaral.. goodluck sayo, kaya mo yan.. tangina nila!
posted by kibitzer, 3 months ago
i may have failed to close a tag. they're all in bold and Italics. test... test..
^^ maraming daliri sa kamay, btw. wala tala\ga yung signal diode na hinahanap mo at sa $10 na halaga na binanggit mo , soldering lead na PhP10 lang maibibigay ko
posted by sorenkant, 3 months ago
teka, parang merong koreanovela na ganito sa siyete ngayon ah!
kidding asside, it's pretty clear that whatever your husband's motive or reason behind sleeping with his lawyer-concubine, he's just trying saving his own ass. and could not care less if he hurts you or your son in the process.
you haven't actually told us what kind of legal battle your husband is currently dealing with. Fraud? Failing to declare bankruptcy? Malversation of funds? Those things may or may not get you behind bars depending on case's severity. All I can say is that your husband should be man enough to deal with his failing business and impending litigations AND STOP HIDING UNDER HIS MISTRESS'S SAYA
posted by musikero, 3 months ago
lol @kibitz, ok lang pre... nga pala, umabot na sa 6v yung output. hehehe.
posted by kibitzer, 3 months ago
hmmm. nawala ang ang italics bold na lang
^mabuti. mabuti 6v. pwede na magradyo @ flashlight
test
posted by warped, 3 months ago
Under the ethics of my profession, I can't give you any legal advice until you hire me or come to me for a consult.
For other advice, I believe that a marriage can survive an affair. That's why we still don't have divorce in this country. Be that as it may, I believe your husband is a slimebag for making an excuse for the kabit. His problems are supposed to be your problems too. If the business needs this lady, then everything should really be above board. Doing otherwise just brings more and more problems.
Lady, you have to start understanding that your husband is part of the problem.
Someone once walked in the office with the same problem. All she wanted to do was get back at the mistress for claiming her husband. As for her husband, she says that "boys will be boys."
What I do suggest is that you see a lawyer immediately. You don't want your husband's problems biting you in the ass.
posted by angtipaklong, 3 months ago
^we have a lawyer in the house :D.
if you really want your marriage to survive its important to sit down with your husband and discuss the root causes of your problems, men stray for various reasons and then again some are just born assholes and the same goes with women some are just born sluts.
It takes two to make a marriage work it also takes two to break it, if you separate a couple and ask both of them who was the cause of the affair its very likely they will put the blame on the other person in one way or another, accepting blame is one of a couple's biggest hurdle.
Just blaming the mistress for your problems is just an easy way to take the responsibility away from your husband, like it or not he is part of the your problem/solution if you don't see this already then your in denial, by consenting to the affair to go on for 2yrs is partly to blame with what your facing now.
Read this article it has some good pointers.
posted by pdropn, 3 months ago
Hi devs...
the first thing that came to mind as advice was...
post mo pic nya showing her ...ahh you know what I mean :D
Kidding aside, heto ang tunay kong payo:
Do you really want to save your marriage?
If yes both of you should seek marriage counselling and trying your (both you) darndest to make it work.
Matagal sigurado bago mahilom ang sugat ng mga pusong nawasak ng pakiki-apid.
If not, cut and cut clean (the relationship, I mean).
Check if legal (valid and subsisting) ang marriage nyo, get an NSO certified marriage certificate ninyo kung wala pa. That would generally be a starting point aside from or including the philandering :)
I would suggest however you first read up on this: http://www.gov.ph/faqs/familycode.asp
[I think warped would agree that "ignorance of the law excuses no one from compliance therewith"]
and ask a lawyer for the possible legal action you could pursue.
posted by devilhimself, 3 months ago
since i'm not a lawyer.. maybe i can at least throw in some points to ponder... (if the hifi lawyer agrees or disagrees, then that would be free consultation for you) :)
if you plan to file a case, it will be against your husband and his mistress, and that would be, under our law, is concubinage (damn not even sure if that's the right spelling)... and to add spice on that matter, since our law was written mostly by men, proving adultery (wife had an affair) fairly easy while proving concubinage will be quite a tremendous task (im not trying to discourage you here but im trying to at least prepare you)... in adultery, when the husband witnessed his wife having an affair (caught his wife going in a motel with another guy), that's a proof or grounds that the wife committed adultery, however, if the wife caught his husband not just going in a motel but while on top of another woman praying for heaven's ecstasy, that is still not a proof or grounds for concubinage... if i remember it correctly (hoping our hifi lawyer will comment on this), a strong concubinage case would entail the following reasons/grounds, if you have proof that (1) your husband had sexual intercourse using your bed... (2) your husband is actually treating his mistress as "wife" or they live as a couple, meaning, he provides shelter, food, clothing, etc for his mistress like he should for his wife and family.... anything falls beyond that, it would be somewhat 50/50...
tama ba warped? (hehehehe pro-bono)
posted by devilboo, 3 months ago
@bebang I felt restless, kakapagod na din mag isip at umiyak (emotera). Siguro nga kahit na sobrang gigil nako dun sa babae and as much as i want to get even eh ignore ko nalang sya tutal patapon naman na ang buhay nya. Thanks sis. :D
posted by devilboo, 3 months ago
@sorenkant Labor case, I think a total of 6. :D
posted by zeepadeedooda, 3 months ago
Hay devs. just read the cosmo (sept issue), may article dun about cheating. Read it.
Anyway, hope you can surpass what you're going through with your hubby. Sus, ikaw ang legal wife so fight for your relationship and your family. You know your husband more so don't give up the fight. Pakita mo sa pagmumukha ng babaitang yon na walang patutunguhan yung kakatihan nya. Nakakayamot yung girl, taga saan ba yan tara sugudin natin. :)
posted by devilboo, 3 months ago
@warped Where's your office located? Andito ka ba sa Pinas? :D
@angtipaklong We're going to meet tomorrow to talk things over, my husband, me and his family, sana matuloy. Thanks sa article, it helps a lot. :-)
Hi pdropn! Musta? Yep, i really want to save our marriage, and i know it will take time talaga for me to heal and to totally trust him. Sugal kung sugal, mahirap na magkaron din ako ng regrets later on, hindi man mag work at least I tried di ba? thanks din po. mwehehehe
@devil hehehe pareho pala tayong devil...Anyways, it's really unfair for us women na kelangan ganyan ang proof in order for us to file a case... as if naman di ba na sa sarling bed namin sila mag love making and all that stuff kung meron man gumagawa nun, bihira lang siguro. Hindi ba pwedeng pictures nilang dalawa kissing or text messages (marami ako nito) calling my husband "hon" ang maging proof ko? What if meron willing mag testify na talagang meron silang relasyon? Pwede ba un? Dati i used to track him, nasa Tagaytay! Hindi sya umuwi that night and 3 weeks ago nalaman ko na that was the time na nag over night sila nun babae. Sarap pumatay! :-(
@zeepadee Got a copy cosmo a while ago, gonna read it later. Kelangan ko ng matinding powers in order for me to surpass this... keep the faith Dev! sobrang nakakayamot talaga as in gusto ko nga gilitan sa leeg eh hehehe ... taga Los Banos lang sya, lika na sugurin natin! hehehe
posted by Harley_Quinn, 3 months ago
@Hilarion & Musikero, I felt that way a couple of years back that I was browsing for scalpels.
posted by kibitzer, 3 months ago
^does seth know about this? : p
posted by warped, 3 months ago
@devilboo Opo, nasa Pilipinas ako, at lisensyado po sa Pilipinas. :)
I wonder if my contact details are available on this incarnation of highfiber, or if there is a private messaging system available.
In the meantime, if you want to discuss this matter more with me, you can Google the name on my avatar without quotation marks. The first link there should take you to my blog, where I have contact information available.
At any rate, any questions you may have about the weight and sufficiency of your evidence regarding any legal action you may take should be addressed to a lawyer.
@pdropn Not knowing the law is not an excuse. Well said.
@devilhimself That's not really on the money, as far as the legal options available to @devilboo are concerned. There are a host of laws to protect women placed in Dev's situation than just adultery and concubinage. @pdropn is closer to the mark by suggesting the Family Code as a starting point and by suggesting that @devilboo check if her marriage actually exists.
I agree fully with @angtipaklong when he says that you should look at your situation keeping in mind that your husband is part of the problem.
posted by notinlovewidyu, 3 months ago
kill the mistress, and kill the beast. i know you love your husband very much mommy devs, but you need to open your eyes on this one. hindi lang ang kabit ang problema mo ngayon dito, pati na rin ang asawa mo. if your husband loves you really that much, then he wouldn't want to do anything to hurt you and his kid.
yung kerida madali lang yan, turo mo yung home addy sis, sunugin na lang natin yung bahay nya para wala na silang titirahan. ang sarap pagsasapakin ng mga ganyang kerida na sila pa ang makapal ang mukha na nagmamalaki! pwe!
posted by spitsmaster, 3 months ago
tanong lang po...
Is devilhimself the husband of devilboo??? :P
*hides underwater*
posted by seth, 3 months ago
see how criminally insane you are harley lovey dovey? we make a great pair!
posted by devilhimself, 3 months ago
@warped - thanks for shedding light on that one... and of course, options are available aside from adultery and concubinage... there's annulment too. concubinage was the only option i mentioned since it's (with my punny mind) the one thing i know that results to "severe" punishment such as imprisonment... and checking if their marriage is valid in the first place was not part of my wild imagination hehehe surely appreciate your validation of things though... cheers!
@sis devil - amidst these chaos you're in, keep a positive point of view (it helps to lessen the stress)... it's not bad to hope as long as you're being realistic about it... make your every step every day be a sure move towards your and your kid's betterment
may you see that light at the end of the tunnel... soon i hope...
posted by devilhimself, 3 months ago
*naglagay ng gutom na piranha, pating, at mga bulate underwater* @spits good luck and have fun... hehehehe :P
posted by musikero, 3 months ago
lol @spits...
posted by angtipaklong, 3 months ago
on the extreme side, this is the penalty for adultery under Sharia Law
In accordance with hadith, stoning to death is the penalty for married men and women who commit adultery. In addition, there are several conditions related to the person who commits it that must be met. One of the difficult ones is that the punishment cannot be enforced unless there is a confession of the person, or four male eyewitnesses who each saw the act being committed. All of these must be met under the scrutiny of judicial authority. For unmarried men and women, the punishment prescribed in the Qur'an and hadith is 100 lashes.
posted by devilboo, 3 months ago
@warped Ok thanks! :D
@notinlovewidyu Halu! Hehehe antay na nalang si kerida, for 10k naman dedo na sya eh. But no, sayang lang 10k ko sa kanya although talagang gusto ko na gawin yun eh. Masamang damo yun, so malamang matagal ang buhay nya.
@spits Hahahaha. Thanks for making me laugh.
posted by devilboo, 3 months ago
^It reminds me of the The Scarlet Letter movie.
posted by pdropn, 3 months ago
@ devs
ayos lang naman ako..at base sa thread mo di ka ok kaya di ko na itatanong kung ok ka. hehehe
and if tama ang pagkakaintindi ko kay warped, ang starting point of any legal advice or inquiry as to marriage is whether or not it was legal (in lawyer parlance, valid and subsisting marriage) hence my suggestion to get an NSO certified marriage certificate since andun nakasulat yung essential (age) and formal requisites (solemnizing officer, where and when kinasal) ng marriage (note these requirements are in the Family Code, a link which I provided somewhere up there). Tutal relatively cheap and mabilis kunin yang marriage certificate sa NSO [If you apply for one in the morning, and walang problema you get it in the afternoon]
and from there my guess is that the lawyer will look into the legal remedies available
and make sure you have all your pieces of evidence (ex. documents, police blotter, barangay blotter, text messages ni mister sa kabit, affidavit ng witnesses kung nagkomprontasyon kayo ni kabit etc..) sa lawyer para masulit mo yung legal consultation mo at hindi masayang ang oras na gugugulin ni attorney sa legal advice :D
@ warped
thanks
and I agree that there are many legal remedies available to devs
posted by devilboo, 3 months ago
@pdropn Im trying to be okay, kelangan eh. Anyways, barangay blotter and medico legal are available naman same as text messages ni hubby kay kabit. I even asked my hubby to save the text messages of her kerida. hehehe. Affidavit of witnesses nalang need ko, and i dont think na mahihirapan ako makakuha. But then of course, kelangan ko pa din pag isipan mabuti ang lahat. I'll just hope for the best and keep my faith alive. :D
posted by zeepadeedooda, 3 months ago
^devs! (icequeen-dati) in case you forgot. hihi.
Anyway, about the text messages.. If he's using a Nokia phone, Synchronize mo lahat sa PC then you can print para may duplicate ka in case na mabura. Alam mo na. Much better na sigurado ka sa mga proof mo. :)
posted by devilboo, 3 months ago
^gudness! mwahugs! Pinasaya mo naman ako sis. Its been a long time. Oo nga, i asked Adrian na nga about sa synchronization ng text messages, later yun ang gagawin ko. thanks for reminding me dear. :D
posted by zeepadeedooda, 3 months ago
^Asus. sabi na nga ba you didn't know that i'm icequeen-dati. lolz.
posted by notinlovewidyu, 3 months ago
sis devs, una sa lahat payakap muna.. *dyosa hug*
tama! lahat ng proof igather na yan.. pero pwede rin namang daanin sa sapakan.. abangan na yan, mag mask tayo, mala a clockwork orange ang dating para walang pagkakakilanlan. harhar! :SM066:
pero sis, kasi kung ako din iiwan ko na asawa ko, tama si sai, but dont share your kid. noteven a glance from him.
posted by devilboo, 3 months ago
@zeepa If you dont mind me asking sis, why zeepadeedoda and bakit ka nagpalit? hahaha... parang ano ah ...ahh ahhh showbiz! hehehe :D
@notinlovewidyu Sis, napag daanan ko na yang sapakan na yan! Actually, sya pa nga ang unang nanakit sakin, kaya umabot sa blotter and medico legal. Makapal lang talaga ang mukha nya, what else is new ganun talaga ang mga kabit mas matapang pa sa legal wife, what makes it more complicated is that meron din syang asawa who happens to be a distant relative ng asawa ko. Sobrang kapal di ba? Life ain't easy, mahirap kung sa mahirap pero hindi ako magpapatalo, with my son, relatives, friends and friends from hifi around, alam kung makakaya ko. :D
posted by zeepadeedooda, 3 months ago
@devs alam mo na kung bakit ako nagpalit. hahaha. why zeepadee? just heard it from eraserheads' song where raymund marasigan rapped. dun ko narining ung zeepadeedooda. Napaka relevant ng meaning noh? lolz. i shouldve change it kasi yung iba nalilito akala ako si sistur zee. (sorry zee! i didn't know na zee talaga real name mo until adrian told me..adeeek.)
anyways, back to the topic. Basta, wag mo i-give up ang marriage nyo kahit mag nosebleed ka pa dahil lang sa girl na yon. Not worth it sis.
posted by angtipaklong, 3 months ago
^^ alam kong makakaya ko , hum's I Will Survive by Gloria Gaynor .
often children are used by either of the parents as a means of getting even, don't fall into this mindset its unhealthy for the child to choose which parent he loves more, a child forgives so easily unfortunately for us adults forgiving takes time.
yes you will survive as so many others have before you, keep your chin up.
posted by devilboo, 3 months ago
@zeepa Shes not worth it talaga sis, kabit = basura.
posted by pdropn, 3 months ago
@ devs
well at least you try feeling good.
Hope for the best is nice but I suggest you act upon it after carefully reflection; hindi biro ang magpa-annul (that is a-n-n-u-l, baka kung ano maisip pa mwehehe) its draining financially, emotionally and physically
If you really believe the marriage is worth repairing/fighting or not is your starting point to the next course/s of action you will take
just in case you really honestly believe that the marriage is beyond repair
examples lang yun ng mga pieces of evidence na puede mong ipakita sa abugado if you want to dissolve your marriage.
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