a very very sad news. i'm still having goosebumps.
she will be greatly missed.
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There was a girl in hifi who made a lot of people smile. She used names like Harley Quinn, HQ and Hazel Danielle. She was a fashionista, girlfriend extraordinaire, she would incessantly beat me at sexual innuendos, she would make me laugh with references to diapers and cheese, and the inside jokes would go on until nobody else but the two of us could understand.
Such is a relationship one could foster with someone online. There is no need for photographs or meeting in person. When you have interesting things to share with somebody, all it takes is a few MB and some keyboard doodling, and there it is, a meaningful human interaction.
For other people in hifi, she would be host to the HQ series, fodder for insane male fantasies, interesting conversationalist, and a warm personality behind a profile photo and a monicker.
To me, she would be reason to troll places like highfiber and plurk.
Recently, she was engaged to be married, even announced this to plurk. She was the HAPPIEST WOMAN on earth that day, and I would like to believe the euphoria dragged on until the end. High-spirited girls like her deserve such things.
I read the news today, and I'm posting darth's email for everybody's information. I am still in shock.
hi ateng tess, i have just received an email from a santos' relative with really grave news. i just would like to know if carlo has been posting on ateng nena's behalf like he said he did to mine. i am still in liberia and has no way to view blocked sites like hifi using this unep camp computer proxied to un geneva.
ateng hazel died monday morning. they came home from a party in neighboring france (i was told it was an engagement party for her and strachan) and she drove the car on the way back for lausanne (where they lived). based on initial reports as of yesterday, strachan was asleep riding shotgun and somewhere in the industrial area of france voisin, the event happened. the french gendarmes/police have an angle where the backside of strachan's car was nicked by some vehicle with a red paint, thereby sending them careening to a road shoulder where the car stood on it's front hood when it hit the post.
the cause of death was when the car fell back down, it snapped ateng hazel's neck despite airbags deploying and the recaro racing style harness. the backroads had no vehicles at that time (3am in the morning) and the emergency call only came in when a passing motorist saw the car letting out steam in the cold. the paramedics say she could have been saved if the call came earlier and inserted a tube in her throat to make her breath, but i think that was just hearsay.
i would like to know some of the news until i get back. i think we can make a proper obit, i feel so sad and far far away. i can't imagine what's going on in their family right now, losing the only girl who i didn't know was recently engaged. i am inserting a picture coming from strachan's insurance, most of the pictures are being withheld by the french police including a separate set of tiremarks which could be the culprit's vehicle. i would like to think so that they were nicked even though we know ateng hazel's craze for tiny fast cars and with a 220bhp civic type-r in her hands who knows if she might have pissed of someone with her famous road rage.
ateng tess, kindly post this in hifi or whatever. i think her online friends must know too. i will post followups when i find a net café later. i can't believe it. she was so vibrant in life you'd think she was indestructible. my condolences goes to the santos family and strachan who's still not aware of what just happened.
thank ateng. i just don't know who to send this email and the first thing i thought was you because you have become friends or thereabouts.
raphael
Hazel, you will be deeply missed.
a very very sad news. i'm still having goosebumps.
she will be greatly missed.
i still keep expecting her to pop up on plurk. there are no words.
wherever you are bella, i hope you are at peace.
i didn't want to believe darth when he told me the news and i'm still in a state of shock. she had a great life ahead of her.
rest in peace ateng HQ. you will be missed.
From Darth:
hi ateng, i just have no way of browsing sites, much more post something due to restrictions. i seldom go out of the compound unaccompanied for a net café.
the news i got this morning was that (maybe you can add this in your post and pls. link it to twitter or that plurk thing etc.) was that her alcohol levels were way below the limit which meant she was sober. her remains will be cremated on friday and put in separate containers to be scattered in the philippines, china, lake geneva and some lake in scotland where i heard they were also building a house.
i was further shocked and for some reason wrenched my heart when ross said that her last post in plurk (which i can't view) was something about being the happiest person on earth.
this is the only way i can communicate in this shithole.
cheers and thanks ateng
God bless your soul Ate Haze. You will be missed, sorely.
Pls. tell me this isn't real....
And yes her last post in plurk was about her being the happiest girl on the planet, probably in reference to her recent engagement....
I hope this is just another one of darth's sick jokes, but my gut tells me otherwise. :(
ha? :(
totoo ba to? teka april 1 ba hindi naman. . .
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sad...
me no like sad news. especially sad news about happy people.
i don't mean to be an asshole but can people stop posting "joke ba to" references? konting respeto naman kay hazel at darth. i don't think magbibiro siya ng ganitong bagay.
grabe... kinilabutan ako. such a sad day in hifi. hope she's happy wherever she may be.
I don't know what else to say except to offer my condolences.
ate hazel, im so sad i didn't have the chance to get to know you better. :( i've always admired you along with the other ates. you were an admirable woman, to the end. god bless your soul. we wish you peace, wherever you may be.
my condolences....
Darth also mentioned her funeral is tomorrow, not Friday.
such a sad thing to happen to happy persons... condolonces to her family..
Eloge Funebre pour Hazel Danielle Santos de Genève, Le 16 Octobre 2008, 46 Avenue Cardinal-Mermillod, 1227 Carouge, GE CH
@crazymerrick : thank you po. kausap ko lang si rap sa gchat, tama sa thursday ang services.
rip
very sad news...condolences to the families.
sad to hear, my condolences. my prayers to her and her family and may she rest in peace.
This song for HQ ...
i did not know you can see all her posts this way pala http://www.highfiber.org/users/Harley_Quinn the last time i saw her was during the philippine independence day celebrations. kasayaw nya si rap na nagkalat and she seemed mad at him. may utang pa ko sa kanya halos 800, di ko man lang nabalik. buhay talaga
our condolences to all those bereaved.
see you soon HQ. 'will miss you :(
Carlotto: Raph mentioned you in our chats as well. Thanks, we would appreciate news about her funeral etc.
will miss you hq.
a sad news...
you will be missed...
This is just so sad... I havent been really active these past months but I dont miss Ate HQ's posts. aww... ate wherever you are.. may you rest in peace. Hayys. it just made my day sad... sad sad news. You rarely find people like her in online communities like this. I dont know you very much ate... but perhaps its already enough to know that you were the happiest person on earth.. God bless you.
P.S I hope you can read this in heaven...
@hilarion, sorry. I didn't mean it that way. I really just can't believe any of these.
I've breathing at the rate of 60 sighs per hour reading this. Such a loss, I think, is bigger than any hole in the Earth that that new hadron collider would be capable of making.
what the fu--? though i met you in the here anonymous in hifi. you were such a fun girl to read to..damn i'm sorry....shit...gotta call seth.
i just found out. cant believe it. sigh.
shit.. goodbye harley
:-S
may you rest in peace HQ.
aw, shit. life can be so damned surreal sometimes. *sigh*
with witty remarks and pleasing personality, you're definitely one of the admirable peeps here in highfiber.
Merci, dear Harley Quinn. Adieu.
oh my.
may you rest in peace harley.
i guess HF people are not immortals after all :(
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HQ, God only wants you to be happy... And Im prettty sure you will still be.
Shit happens for a reason.
RIP HQ. We'll never forget.
oh shit. even if i wasn't as close to HQ as the rest of you, I feel like I lost a part of me. She's looking down on us. She's in a safe, peaceful and happy place.
The asshole who did this may escape human authority, he will never escape a HIGHER authority. May God have mercy on his/her soul.
there will never be another HQ that's for sure. RIP
i'm wishing that this was a bad prank from darthie. but i guess it's for real. To Danielle the toughest fragile person I know, you will be missed dearly.
omg.... condolence.
that's sad to hear :( i share my condolences... *prays*
*speechless...why are these things happening?
OMG! cant believe it. kakalungkot naman. stay happy HQ wherever you are.
I felt like my heart's been grabbed outta my chest.. she's such a sweetie.. why? *sniffles while humming "Think of Laura"*
shit! i've been hybernating for quite some time when i got the news from bebs and i still can't believe it is true! i've got a friend whose car was total wrecked last year when a garbage truck hit them directly, the car car was overloaded and all passengers are drunk and has no seatbelt...but all of them survived with broken bones and other major injuries, but at least all them are alive and kicking again as of today. I guess panapanahon lang tlg HQ, I can feel for the love ones you left behind...especially for the guy. ;(
rest in peace Haze, you will be deeply missed.
I just came back home from a getaway party in guimaras when letsugas sent me a message, and I just can't bare to believe it. We were drinking then, but I lost my mood due to depression from the bad news. She was always that witty, happy, shining person here, and it's just so sad to think that this happened to her.
My condolonces to her family, relatives and close friends.
HQ, wherever you are, know you will always be remembered here.
wow. i've been exposed to many deaths recently... a friends' tito and my officemate's father last week... and sadly, even my own father just this morning... it's been so sad, and now hq has passed away too. *sigh* it's only when it hits so close to home that you realize how precious life is...
kaya mo yan ryder...
even though i am a "not-so active member" here, i felt so sad to hear this news. may she find the happiness that she seek. RIP HQ...
the world may be a little less brighter with your passing, but at least you are finally at peace.
my condolences to her family, fiancee and friends.
see you on the other side, we will miss you.. may you rest in peace
mahal ka ng mga tao dito sa highfiber.
OMG! Naguilty tuloy ako, di ko pinansin itong post na ito. Pinansin ko lang nang nagkaroon na ng onload screen sa hifi.
Very sad.
hi guys, services will be at 21:00 GMT+1 tonight. i would like to print this thread along with your prayers at iba pa for the letter box that will be included in the cremation at midnight. lester (or jebus as he was known in hifi v6 is aware of this thread)
* she was born in 1980 and would have turned 28 on november 23rd of this year.
Carlo and Darth: Condolences to family and friends. You are all in my prayers.
I miss Harley already.
@crazymer : di pa sumagot si rap since yesterday. pero i think lester sent him an email detailing things. the letterbox will be placed on her arms, syanga pala.
making a hifi screen shot of the onload screen
We're happy to have been part of her life, albeit online. Thanks for including us in the letters.
Thanks Carlo. Please send our condolences to Hazel's family and her other friends. Our prayers and thoughts are with them (and Haze) always.
kindly send my condolences to the family, may she rest in peace.
Still sighing...
rest in peace HQ...
my deepest condolences
rest well HQ
my deepest Condolences on hazel's family
it still hasn't sunk in. Again, my condolences to the family.
R.I.P
THIS IS NOT FUNNY.
omg. for a moment there i couldn't breathe. surely somebody must be joking?
but this is too damn serious to be a joke. surely, nobody is as fucking sick as that, to create a troll that everyone grew to love, and have it killed later.
the full reality of things dawned on me when i read, learned and knew more of hazel from her plurk, i couldnt help but feel a terrible sense of loss knowing that life could have had so much more in store for her.
it reminds us though that life's too short when you're having the time of your life.
if someone caused this accident to happen, i hope justice can be served. i hope they catch the bastard, and snap his neck too.
but if not, well... knowing HQ, perhaps God wanted someone as vibrant as her to make things more fun up there.
addendum: i just read the other comments, sorry about the disbelief.
i just want to cry. man.
so sad... *offers 2 minutes of silence to HQ*
it wont be the same without her.
"life is uncertain..." r.i.p.
goodbye princess Nena
and yes, i'm still having goosebumps reading this thread. :(
RIP. Soon...
deep condolences to HQ's family... and also to all of us here at the Highfiber community...
@ lexicon she doesnt like to be called Nena.
may her soul rest in peace..
@aref - yes, i know, i just want to remember how happy she was that day. although we just had a couple of interaction here at hifi, her radiance and vibrant nature seems to rub on to everybody
di man ako nagkaroon ng pagkataon makipagtalastasan sayo HQ pero sapat ng mabasa ko mga panunulat mo dito... nakakalungkot...
at kung totoo mang may ibang taong nag-cause ng aksidente... di ka man lang tumigil.. putang ina ka... aantayin kita sa kaharian ko.
we will miss her. kahit na hindi ko siya nakilala gaano o naka-chat sa old site natin, Hifi will never be the same again.
we will miss her. kahit na hindi ko siya nakilala gaano o naka-chat sa old site natin, Hifi will never be the same again.
finally i found a fly-infested net café in downtown monrovia.
as of last night carlottoboy has emailed me that he has already printed this and other condolence threads. it was given to lester/jebus for the letter box included in the cremation of ateng nena's remains.
the french police has already identified the tiremarks and the make of the car (peugeot) based on wheelbase symmetry (i didn't know they could do that) and wished they could find the asshats as much as they keep trying to that white car that nicked diana and dodie.
@manong aref - naiyak daw uli father ni ateng nung mabasa yung plurk msg. =(((
may her soul be rest in peace.....
i've been not checking the net for the past weeks and out of the blue this news popped to my face when i was blog hopping, i thought someone was just kidding...\
condolence to her family.
^darth condolence my friend... I hope so too...
I'll just keep drinking in her memory.
i never got the chance to know you.. too bad for me.
life is indeed short.
too short.
*sigh
Thanks Darthie for the updates despite the current sitch there - nice to know you're not in that goat infested cafe anymore. 'Very much appreciated.
I really hope they find the culprit/s soon. Those assholes need to learn a lesson that will whack them for all eternity. Bad as it may sound, but may the Almighty smite them with all his will.
condolences to ryder as well...
said and done, i was only able to give the printouts of this thread and the plurk link to his brother and placed them in the message box. i had to go back to work right after.
at the santos' lunch.... http://darth-jesus.livejournal.com/2008/10/28/
@carlo - futa kayo, naglasang maraschino yung drinks hahaha
it's bittersweet. It's so rare I feel happy and sad at the same time after knowing plurk has given her infinite karma.
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